“If I had more money leave all my debts and my problems are.”
These are familiar words to which I am sure, can relate too many of us.
Sorry, but with more money will not solve our problems often.
Like Susan, who defies all odds of winning the coveted ticket? She finds herself penniless a few years later the title.
Or Julie, the owner of the company that provides an important contract and deposit, the largest sum of money she has ever done in their business. A few months later they are struggling to pay their bills, trying desperately to win another major order.
Or Bridget who inherits a large sum of money, but they found him in a massive debt, which had lost all their new wealth could buy.
For each of these people – having “more money” did not help. Although the extra money useful in the short term, long term, all found themselves in debt and / or fight despite the large sums of money each had received.
Why?
Because the reason that originally contributed to and influenced their individual battles – had not been addressed.
Susan played Julie and Bridget relationship with money an important role in how they are managed (or in this case – Miss Management) money.
I call that money to your personality.
Just like your personality is by properties that influence your behavior – the kind of money has certain characteristics and behaviors that affect how you relate to and manage your money.
There are five types of awards:
The Kind of Love Money
Money Security Type
Value for money
the kind of money recognition
the type of money from the state
so what is your kind of money?
Maybe you’re like Susan, who won the coveted lottery ticket. The kind of money they need love to be loved by others. One way was for them, that they would people buy gifts, but they do not really need these terms in the hope this would strengthen their relationship.
Maybe you can relate to the contractor with Julie. Your type of money from the state means they buy the best and latest in computer and office equipment, although their current equipment was in order. She loved her family with expensive gifts; take a shower, as well as their clients and customers for the sumptuous lunch – things they could not really afford.
Or you can read more like Bridget, who inherited his father – who was the value of such money. Because they feel the need to feel appreciated, told his sweet heart than friends and colleagues often turn to them for financial support. It is difficult to say no, they would constantly give their time and money every time she was asked.
Exactly how each of these women, we can also see the habits and behaviors useless when it comes to managing our money.
Or maybe you yourself are dealing with money in the manner exactly opposite your parents.
It is important to break the cycle and habits of the money, so we stopped at the location of the fault, liabilities and the ongoing struggle for the revenue we generate for our company back.
Susan knew that her need to belong and finally managed to accept themselves for who she was. Julie need for validation is not even buying expensive items, and they could finally important to find other ways of feeling. And Bridget is no longer the need to prove that she was quite good and a good person, and acknowledged that it was exactly how precious it is.
What do you think? What do you want to fill deep emotional needs, which currently keeps you achieve your goals of money?
